I'm Beka. I live in the city with my husband and three kids. My oldest daughter is about to turn 16 this year, and she's going through a rebellious phase where she refuses to do anything that her friends aren't doing. We've had to get creative when it comes to getting her to behave and follow rules. My youngest son has just started school for the first time, so we're still adjusting to the new daily routine and making sure he doesn't feel too overwhelmed with everything new. I'm also working on my own business as a freelance writer while taking care of our household and three kids at the same time.
It's been tough balancing everything lately but there have been moments where I've managed to squeeze in some me-time, usually when everyone is out or asleep. Those times are precious to me because they allow me to recharge before diving back into the chaos that comes with juggling multiple roles as a wife and mother.

I have always struggled to find a balance between being perfect for everyone else versus doing what I want to do. It seems like there's this pressure on women these days where we're expected to be the perfect person for our family, friends, and careers while still maintaining our own interests and desires. Sometimes it feels impossible but my way of dealing with it has been by setting small goals for myself each day that allow me space to relax or pursue something enjoyable.
It's not always easy but those moments make all the hard work worth it when I