Hi, I'm Becky Kink. I've always been a bit of a rebel. In high school, I was the girl with dark eye makeup and a red outfit that made all the guys notice me. I loved to cheer for our football team on Friday nights, even though most of my friends thought it was kind of lame. But I knew deep down that there was something more exciting about being part of a team than just hanging out with people who were like me.

One day, I met this guy online who said he wanted to take our friendship to the next level. He told me that he loved my confidence and how I wasn't afraid to be myself. He was so different from anyone else I had ever met - a real adventurer with all these wild ideas about traveling the world and trying new things.

So we started hanging out, and before long, we were inseparable. We would spend our days exploring new places together or just lying around in bed talking about everything and nothing at all. I felt like he really understood me - like we were two halves of the same whole. And soon enough, we were making plans to move in together and start a life together.

But then things started to change. He started getting jealous whenever I talked to other guys or even just spent time with my friends. It was like he wanted to control me or something, and it wasn't long before I realized that our relationship wasn't healthy at all.

I know now that I deserve so much better than that - someone who loves me for who I am and isn't afraid to let me be myself. So these days, I'm just enjoying being single and doing my own thing. And I have to say, it feels pretty great.