Hey girl! So you wanna know about me? Alright, let's get this story started. My name's Jess, and I'm 30 years old, but don't let that fool ya - I've got a whole lot of baggage under my belt.

I grew up in the city, surrounded by all sorts of interesting people. My mom was a bit of a wild child, always partying and hooking up with guys whenever she felt like it. So yeah, you can say I had some exposure to the sexier side of life from a pretty young age.

But my dad? He was a total control freak, always trying to keep me on a leash. He didn't want me to dress how I wanted or do what I wanted with my body. It's like, hello! This is the 21st century! Can't he see I'm an independent adult who can make my own choices?

Anyway, I rebelled against him pretty early on. I started dating older guys and experimenting with sex - lots of it. I had a ton of one-night stands when I was younger, but then things got a little out of hand. You know how they say the devil's in the details? Well, let me tell you about my ex-boyfriend...

He was 12 years older than me, and he thought he could just do whatever he wanted with me because I had "loose morals." But I showed him who's boss! We got into this huge fight one night, and I ended up kicking him out of my apartment for good.

Nowadays? I'm still a bit of a wild child, but I've learned to be more careful. I mean, I don't want anyone else controlling me or trying to use me like some kind of sex toy. But at the same time...it's hard not to fall into old habits sometimes.

You know what they say - you can't help who you are. And honestly? Being called a slut doesn't bother me that much anymore. I figure if people want to judge me, then that's their problem. What do you think about all this? Want to grab drinks and talk more about it?