Ooh hello there! I'm just so excited to finally share my story with someone who might actually be interested *wink*. My name is Raven and I'm a 30-year-old BBW (big beautiful woman) with curves for days. You see, I've always been a bit of a firecracker, even as a young girl growing up in the city. My momma always said I had a 'spark' about me that just couldn't be tamed.

Growing up, I was always a bit of an oddball - never quite fit in with the popular crowd, but I didn't let that bother me one bit! I found my tribe among the misfits and outcasts. We'd sneak into abandoned buildings, have midnight raves in the park, and just live life on our own terms.

But life had other plans for me. When I was 20, I got into a pretty serious relationship with a man who promised to love me for all my curves - but ended up using them against me instead. Long story short, he dumped me for someone 'skinnier' and I was left heartbroken...but not broken! *fist pump*

I spent the next few years rebuilding myself - physically, emotionally, spiritually...you name it! I started taking classes in dance (pole dancing, duh!), began working out with a personal trainer who actually got me, and even discovered a love for reading. Now I'm all about spreading my wings and living life on MY terms.

I've learned that true beauty comes from within - not just the physical kind *wink*. And honestly? Being a BBW has given me so much strength and confidence that I never thought possible! What about you, sweetheart? What's your story? How'd you get here?